Porn. My Thoughts.

I will share articles of interest and comment when I have something to say and oh boy oh boy do I have something to say about pornography.  There is a certain irony that I would feel so strongly about something that is so prevalent in the sex industry.

We are all hypocrites.  I am no different.  I have learned a lot from experience so with all my heart I would like to share that with you.  Take it with a grain of salt.  Heck, here take two even …

Let me tell you about a man whose rabbit hole got so big it swallowed him whole.  Peter had a pretty spicy life before he married and settled down.  Maybe it was because he’d already experienced a little bit of spice that he found himself drawn back to it.  Before long he was reliving those experiences by looking at porn.  It was harmless.  It was something he only did when his wife was away.

I had always suggested to clients that porn was no biggie if it was treated as a once in a while thing much like eating fast food ought be.  Don’t be living in that space I would warn …

It started to become a bit of an obsession with Peter.  I noticed his sometimes spice became a bit of a dark kink.  Peter had started watching the kind of porn his wife would be quite horrified at and then he started buying sex toys to use on himself.  And then he simply couldn’t stop.

It became a problem because he could not get hard without the blue pill and porn.  He would, even now, tell me that it wasn’t an issue and he could stop any time he wanted but he simply didn’t want to.  He sleeps in a seperate bedroom now and cannot remember the last time he and his wife were intimate.

The further away from real intimacy he goes the less likely he will ever find his way back.  It just seems all kinds of sad to me.  It is empty.  It is a shitty cheeseburger from Maccas compared to a home cooked meal made from scratch.

The men I have seen over the years who have succumbed to porn always (yes, always) feel inadequate and unhappy at the size of their cocks.  It is just such madness to me.

Let’s start a movement where we start again with all of it.  Fuck porn.