Payment. Please.

Recently, a valued client whom I had seen more than once visited for another experience.  Generally, I will welcome guests in with a hug before leading them to my ‘office’.  Once there I expect payment to be made before inviting my guest to shower.

I have never bothered to count money because I trust that whoever is sharing such an intimate experience is trustworthy.  I give myself willingly and the client pays for that privilege.  It is a straight forward transaction and while it might seem a tad distasteful to mention this I feel it necessary to remind guests of their responsibility.

Back to the event.

Wayne is pulled into a hug before we make our way to the bedroom.  Here is where he distracted me – on purpose.  Instead of doing the usual he was excited pushing me to the bed before climbing on top to kiss me.  It wasn’t usual and it did distract me.  He had his shower – the date continued as is usual.  It was a great experience.  Wayne left with a smile on his face.

Within a couple of minutes I realised he’d not paid so I just flicked a text his way asking him to return.  He didn’t.  Not everyone is glued to their phones and he was heading home so I sent my account details so he could simply make payment when he realised his mistake.

Day three I decided to give him a call to remind him but it was here that I realised I was blocked.  Blocked? Ok – well that could be that he is worried that I would make contact outside of the appointment.  Day four found me wondering if he’d done this on purpose and if I just have to accept responsibility for my part.

I spoke to a friend who has been in this business a lot longer who informed me that this is a tactic some men use simply to get one over on working girls.  Ugh.  Well.  I decided this was unacceptable.  I managed to get a message to Wayne reminding him that in New Zealand, if you don’t pay a sex worker, it can legally be considered rape — because consent was conditional. And no, I did not consent to having sex with him for free.

Within ten minutes Wayne had paid in full.  No apology.  Nothing.

Wayne is a poor representation of a man who is old enough to know better.  I had provided excellent service to a man who has more than enough money to pay his way but chose not to.  I will never see that man again.  Obviously.

Please do not be offended when I ask for payment before you take your shower.  xx