Kink.

I never read the words I write after they hit the page. Sometimes it is as if I just need to expel the letters from my body so I can breathe again. Not that I have anything important to say – I find myself at times with words forming that need release.

I don’t know much about kink/s. Sure, I have had many a client want something from me that is out of the ordinary, at times I am perplexed and other times not at all surprised but I always remain respectful. I am not into kink/s but I know how to please a man who is.

I do get aroused when I can see a man truly excited just from what I am doing or saying or being – that is about the extent of it for me.  If I see him letting go and allowing pleasure, that is all I need to get turned on.

I reflected on this after a recent experience where a man wanted me laying on my bench top while he sat on a bar stool inserting different foods inside my pussy.  It was something he’d always wanted to try and it was an experience I was able to provide.  Did it turn me on? Nope.  But it wasn’t about me.  I have come to understand that this is not all about me.  haha

There are some kinks I don’t allow simply because I can actually dictate what goes on in my bedroom.

I do not like to be bombarded with dick pics, video of you shooting cum – that is really unacceptable to me – unless you pay for the pleasure.  I am a whore, after all.  But.  You will ask permission before sending anything.  Please.

Here is what I know about ‘kink’ – sometimes it is as simple as reliving that first sexual experience, that first time you found yourself aroused – that stays with us – forever.  Other times it might have started with a simple stroll down some rabbit hole that led to being super turned on.

I would just wish to warn those who keep on down that road that the longer you visit the more that particular kink will grab a hold of you until it becomes extreme.  And there really isn’t any fun in that!

There are times I like to be dominated and other times that I prefer to dominate but I know that I always return home to where it is safe and sexual intimacy is the target.

Pleasure is always the goal.  xx