Push. Pull.

I have learned so much about sexuality and intimacy during my time as a whore.  As some of you are aware, this is not my first rodeo – years ago I was working in Auckland,  Circumstances brought me back but this time I wanted to have more control over the outcome.  This is why I prefer men over 45 – I have discovered that most men are not fully ‘cooked’ until they hit their late forties.

Understanding my own sexual needs has been paramount in being able to provide them for my clients.  Staying present in this industry is always a challenge but I find older men just have more to offer.  It isn’t in the rushing, the cavorting, the prancing – it is in the slowness of the breath, the depth of the kiss, the ache of the desire.

There is a real energy between men and women that ought be explored more thoroughly – it might be the key to all of this.  This is really a follow on from my post about Female Fantasy.  This exploration between the push and pull has been on my mind a while now so let’s see if I can express those thoughts.  And lets not forget that I am no expert on anything but I do have a bit of experience I would like to share with my fellow travellers.

Doesn’t it make perfect sense that the male and female energy play off each other in such a way that it is just so fucking sexy? I don’t want to be the only one pushing or pulling – we take turns at that.  There is the masculine and feminine energy that both men and women possess right? We need to embrace when our lover wants to pull us into this energetic play … the yin and the yang.  Let me go look that up.  BRB

Key Aspects of Yin and Yang
Dualism and Opposites:
The concept is rooted in dualism, describing the interdependent opposites that comprise reality, such as:
Darkness (yin) and light (yang)
Femininity (yin) and masculinity (yang)
Earth (yin) and heaven (yang)
Passivity (yin) and activity (yang)
Complementary and Interdependent:
Yin and yang are not separate entities but are interconnected and interdependent, constantly changing and interacting. One is incomplete without the other.
The Symbol:
The iconic symbol depicts this relationship, with each half containing a small dot of the opposite color, symbolizing that even within one force, there exists a spark of the other.
Balance:
The goal is not the dominance of one over the other but a dynamic, rhythmic balance between them, which maintains harmony in individuals, society, and the universe.
Origins:
The term originated in ancient Chinese philosophy and is a fundamental concept in Taoism (Daoism).

Well there you go then – this is it in a nutshell! Jon Snow and I know nothing!

The dance is energy.  xx